Happy Anniversary

Forty years ago today my father took a wife. While I'm sure there have been ups and downs, it is obvious that they have experienced more ups than downs. Over the years, they have offered a wonderful example of what a marriage should be. I honestly can not remember either of them ever raising their voice against the other. I don't think there has ever been true conflict between them. Each approaches the union with the best interests of the other in mind and practices Biblical submission. As a husband myself, I admire that ability. They enjoy each other's company so much they voluntarily spend 24 hours a day together.

When I was a child, I was sincerely confused by classmates that were children of divorce, because I simply couldn't comprehend a situation where my parents wouldn't be married anymore. I always thought that everybody stayed married until death. That's just the way things are done.

Growing up in such a household I know I often took for granted that my parents loved each other and would always be together. The years have given me a greater appreciation for their relationship and the work that goes into it.

Mom and Dad, thank you for your example of a godly marriage to your children. Thank you for keeping your 40 year old promises. Thank you for the things I can't put into words. I wish you a happy anniversary, and I hope you have many, many more.